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«…It’s not easy to get to that point, believe me, I know. You can start with the simplest things…«

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When a year is about to end, we can’t help thinking about all the bad things that happened to us, and we ask God and the universe, that the new year would bring only good things. At least, that was always my thinking, until I had a spiritual awakening that changed my way to see life: I am infinitely grateful for all the good things that happened to us, but also, for all the “bad” things that happened last year.

Sometimes we spend many hours a day feeling sorry for all the bad things that happen to us, for the negative people who hurt us, and for the “bad luck” that hunt us, but we do not stop to think in all the opportunities that those circumstances place in front of us.

I used to spend my time suffering for many circumstances; when a problem would show up into my life, soon another one would come, and then another one. Of course, I would start drowning myself and start suffering and complicating my own existence. Problems would vary from family conflict to work and money problems.

When you enter into that negative state, no one can get you out, not the person you love, nor your best friend, nor the love of your kids, no one. The only person, who could get you out of that internal conflict, is yourself.

But, how?

You have to see those problems from a different perspective. You must see them as life changing opportunities. You have to believe, that the universe places those obstacles in your life, so you can snap and take another road; so you can take risks and make life decisions; so you can get away from that person who hurts you (if that’s the case), so you can take a different path that will lead you to meet new people that provide only good energy and peace.

It’s not easy to get to that point, believe me, I know. You can start with the simplest things. I started by keeping distance from people who caused me pain, ironically some of them were family. One thinks that because they are family, we must endure all kinds of insults, rumors, terrible energy. Turns out, you don’t have to! You have the right to keep away anyone who hurts you.

Don’t treat them badly, don’t insult them, don’t hate them; just wish them well, from the bottom of your heart, and step away, that’s it. They key is to do it without hard feelings, with love.

Keep away any negative feeling you have in your heart. Do not hate anyone, love them, but stay away. Learn to take some distance from negative people because those terrible vibes represent half of your internal problems.

Your life will start changing from there. You will feel free, lighter, and peaceful.

All those circumstances and awakenings are part of a process that continues… There will always be a negative person around, there will always be a setback, or lack of money at some point. But if you live in the “now”, you will feel happier.

I don’t know if what I just wrote might help you right now, I hope so! Writing this has been part of my healing process… Each person has a different level of problems; I understand that, and I wish from the bottom of my heart that you find your way.

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